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Are you a perfect 8?I wish for all of you to be pulsating shining 8's. Many of you probably think that the idea is to be a perfect 10 – but after reading this month’s Newsletter I know your new favorite number will be 8. Today’s topic is RECEIVING, and how important your willingness to receive is for the results in your life. How good are you at RECEIVING? I am a bad RECEIVER – and my poor receiving abilities have created a big unbalance in my life. Finally understanding the balance between GIVING and RECEIVING was a big AHA-moment. I have been taught as a child to focus on GIVING and I know this is the same for many of you. We were told to be generous, kind, give from our heart, give of our time and to give a helping hand. The more we gave the "better" we were. There is nothing wrong with giving – we should give what we can from a generous heart – but we must have balance and be able to RECEIVE as well. I was taught that receiving was trickier. It was OK to receive something, but if I wanted more there was a fine balance before I was judged as greedy, selfish and self-centered. Basically many of us learned to give as much as we could but to limit our focus on wanting and having. The "good people" gave a lot and asked for little. This unbalance taught us that RECEIVING was not OK.
Many people even have a hard time receiving a compliment. How often haven't you heard someone being complimented for their nice outfit, only to say: "Oh, this old thing. It's just something I pulled out of the back of my closet". Why is it so difficult to just say "Thank You – I'm glad you like it". Do you see that this creates blocks in our perfect flow? Everything is energy and the flow of energy is like a garden hose. It can run freely and strong, but if you have a block it will be only a little – or nothing – that flows through. This is the same with our energy. If we have a block like for example an old paradigm, limiting self belief or lack of trust the energy doesn’t run freely. The key is to understand that the ability to RECEIVE is half of the equation. If the results in your life are not how you want them to be you need to work on your ability to RECEIVE. If you think about two people talking we can see the two physical bodies standing next to each other. They will feel if it is a loving, caring conversation – or a hostile one - because the energy will flow from one through the other and then back again. The energy that circulates between them will impact both of them. Just imagine two people wildly in love. It wouldn't matter if they where talking about math problems, a book they read – or paint – the sparks would still fly and the energy between them would be magnetic. Knowing how our energy flows we can see that the Infinity symbol is a perfect balance between GIVING and RECEIVING – and this is the key. Looking at your life you can see where you might have some blocks or narrow parts in your energy flow making you unable or unwilling to RECEIVE. GIVING and RECEIVING is the foundation of an abundant life. If the balance is not right and your results are not the way you would like, you know there are blocs in the flow that needs to be cleared. Do you see what happens when you have a strong flow of giving, but are not able to receive? The ability to Receive is very much linked to our self worth – that we are worthy of receiving. Do you feel worthy of receiving a promotion, to be loved, feeling proud of your achievements, monetary abundance, and perfect health? When looking into some areas of my life I saw that my perfect 8 was blocked. The flow of GIVING was very strong, but the flow of RECIVING was very weak. Understanding the impact of energy blocks gave me the ability to clear the blocks and start RECEIVING without feeling guilty or selfish. And I’m talking about receiving in a broad sense. It could of course be money, but also help, support, advice, service and peace of mind. A lot of the paradigms, or blocks, we have come from our families and friends. This is not about handing out blame; this is just for you to get an understanding so you can decide if you want to hold on to these old blocks. Many grew up in families where lack of money was an issue, or that you need to work long and hard to achieve your goals, or that it's important to fit in to be loved. Decide if you still want to tie your energy up in these old beliefs – or if it’s time to clear the blocks and take your energy back! There are different efficient ways to clear blocks like EFT or other powerful energy tools. You can find information about EFT on www.emofree.com, and on the website for the radio show "Everything is energy" they have some powerful free tools www.everythingisenergy.com. Now you get a chance to work on your RECEIVING skills:
Allow yourself to RECEIVE - be a perfect balanced shining 8 – and open up for the abundant flow in your life.Thank you, |
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If you look at the Infinity symbol I have added you will see that it is a perfect lying 8. This fantastic symbol show perfect harmony and it is a great way to understand the balance between GIVING and RECEIVING. This is how energy flows – it moves in and out of form but is never created or destroyed. You GIVE your energy and someone RECEIVES it and sends the flow of energy back to you. It’s a constant flow of GIVING and RECEIVING.